first you engage intellectually,
then you engage emotionally,
then you engage physically.
At any rate, physicality should be your final consideration, because it hardly involves consideration; and the things that aren’t considered are frequently the most dangerous.
Realisation is slowly trickling down to me as the congratulations come in. I have a feeling a lot of people are really more excited than me about it. mainly because i still can’t quite believe that something that beautiful could ever happen to me.